This Dude Would Like You To Understand His Gender Fluidity.

I didn’t realize when I woke up this morning that I would be posting the word “batsh*t” so many times in one day, but here we are. 

The latest example?  Feast your eyes on this gem:

https://twitter.com/libsoftiktok/status/1503773182628548612?s=20&t=JQCFz8VlJrur2k-ZN0n5XQ

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.  I’m not playing this nonbinary game with people like this.  If you’re legit transitioning physically and legally from one of our TWO BINARY GENDERS I’ll play.  If you’re Caitlyn Jenner, for example, I’ll call you Caitlyn and use she/her pronouns.  But if you’re the dude above?  Nope.  Not playing.

By the way, let’s just make it super clear that dude above is a dude.  You can see more of him here.  A LOT MORE.  (And incidentally, his Tiktok handle is JAMESISSMILING, and he claims to be an “actress.” Because as you saw above, he’s a transgirl, y’all.)

@jamesissmiling Back by popular demand #ootd #grwm #genderfluid #trans #nonbinary ♬ original sound – jamesissmiling

Women don’t have junk in their undies.  Unless they suffer from a medical disorder, they don’t grow hair all over their chests.  This person isn’t trans – because he’s not transitioning FROM anything TO anything.

I’m simply not interested in living in the pretend make-believe worlds that “non-binary” people create for themselves.  They’re welcome to call themselves whatever they want and live their lives as they choose.  I’m just not participating in the delusion.

That said, James seems like an absolutely delightful person generally.  He’s very kind and warm in his approach to answering questions and posting content.  Here’s an example.

@jamesissmiling Reply to @__jem____ how I define my #sexuality #nonbinary #gaytok #trans #lesbian #bisexual #gayman #genderfluid ♬ original sound – jamesissmiling

I mean, just look how smiley and delightful he is.  But yeah – he probably wouldn’t wanna be my friend, because of how I wouldn’t play the pronoun game with him. And that’s totally cool.  We don’t need to be friends.  He probably has tons of friends who are more than happy to participate in the collective fantasy, and that’s really nice for all of them.

Imma just stay over here in the real world.  🙂