Have You Ever In Your Life Witnessed More Stunning Bravery Than This?

There’s a new piece in the New York Post written about a chick – a model, I think – named Amie Butler.  Here’s the title.

Why is this something to “come out” about?  Why is our society SO FREAKING DUMB, that this is the kind of sh*t people are PROUD about?

Amie is a Brit, and in the article, she says she hasn’t had sex in ages and would be completely fine if she never had it again.  The problem, apparently, is that people don’t believe her.  They tell her that she either just hasn’t had good sex yet.  Or they tell her that she’s way too hot to not have any sex drive.

From the source:

“It can be frustrating when people say and believe these things,” Butler admitted in an interview with the Daily Star. “But at the end of the day it’s who I am and if I can accept it that’s enough for me at the moment.”

But that’s just it.  It’s not enough.  Because now there are interviews and op-eds about her “coming out” as asexual two years ago, and having pride about it.

Ben Shapiro’s point was spot on.

I’m never going to understand people having pride about their sexual behavior.  WTF.

But Amie needs us all to know about her evolution into being an asexual person.

“I was dating this guy and I realized I didn’t want to sleep with him, even though he was everything I was looking for on paper,” she recalled. “That made me ask the question of have I ever wanted to sleep with anyone and the answer was not really. I always found it a bit of a chore or something I should be doing because everyone else is.”

So she started googling it, and discovered that there’s a WHOLE ENTIRE LABEL she can assign herself.  She claimed it was “quite a big and hard-hitting realization” and that she “struggled mentally for such a long time” thinking something was wrong with her.

Now?  Now she’s got ALL KINDS OF PRIDE about it.  She has apparently started a whole TikTok account to “help educate people about the orientation and remove any stigma.”  And in fact, she’s made one video expressing her dismay that some folks in the LGBTQ+++++++++ community don’t think asexuals are PART of that community.

@amiebutler66 ‘Being straight and cisgender is not the only ‘norm’, because sexual and romantic attraction are seen as ‘normal’ too. Asexuals are here and queer and we should be able to be proud as everyone else.’- Latonya pennington 👏🏼 🏳️‍🌈 #pride #asexual #ace #aceawareness #lgbtqia #lgbt #fyp #foryou ♬ Tell me something that will piss me off – Artimus Wolz

She’s “here and queer,” you guys.  And for some reason, we all need to know about that.

So stunning.  So brave.

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  1. Sarah Aug 6, 2022 at 4:10 am

    First, if we have to know, we are relieved that this is your decision, now be quiet. Second, this is absolutely none of our business, now be quiet. Third, Viagra and co gave up on female equivalents because the increase in the relevant hormones doesn’t make the vast majority of women more interested AT ALL. For most women desire is tied to affection, or what they think is affection. Good or bad, accurate or not, its all in your (little) head. Now, be quiet.
    Idiot celebrities.

  2. The_Kats_Meow Aug 5, 2022 at 9:50 am

    Is this really a bad thing? With so many hos using abortions as a form of birth control, I think we should applaud someone for NOT having sex when they feel they aren’t ready. I wish more on the left would adopt this mentality. Abortions might go back to being rare.

    On another note…I think it’s hilarious the LGBT++++ community is being deluded with sexual crazies who think they belong simply because they aren’t “normal”. LGBT went from being a community for same-sex partners wanting the same rights and freedoms as straight people to a catchall for nut jobs. Encompassing all this nonsense just makes the actual LGBT community look bad, very bad.

  3. geebert Aug 4, 2022 at 11:18 pm

    Great. Now I have to watch a Ted Talk to help bring back the brain cells I just lost.

  4. MikeLemon Aug 4, 2022 at 6:43 pm

    Being straight and cisgender [not insane] is not the only ‘norm’,

    Well, yeah, it is. That is pretty much what “norm” means.

  5. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 4, 2022 at 1:46 pm

    What’s she saying seems to dovetail with the “sex strike” leftist females threatened to go on after Roe V. Wade was overturned. But her refusal to have sex when/if she marries is extreme.

  6. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 4, 2022 at 1:04 pm

    It’s worth noting that homosexuality is celebrated, while virginity and celibacy is ridiculed. I’m pleased to be the latter. If lesbians and gays can be proud of what they do, there’s no harm about my being proud of what I DON’T do. But come my wedding night, HUBBA, HUBBA, I’ll have him saying that he’s worn out after lotsa Nicey Spicy!👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️💍🥂💕

  7. Arashi Aug 4, 2022 at 11:42 am

    More first world BS problems. Can we send her to a country where she will actually have real issues, like finding enough to eat everyday, so she can discover what real problems are?

  8. KurtUSA Aug 4, 2022 at 10:40 am

    “[S]he says she hasn’t had sex in ages and would be completely fine if she never had it again. . . . So she started googling it, and discovered that there’s a WHOLE ENTIRE LABEL she can assign herself.”

    Could the new label be Mrs.?

    Like the old joke, what food makes a female never want to have sex again? Wedding cake!

    1. Frank907 Aug 4, 2022 at 3:13 pm

      There is a legal matter of consummation, but that can be taken care of with a quickie between the ceremony and the reception.

      1. KurtUSA Aug 4, 2022 at 6:40 pm

        The old joke about spousal support being the screwing you get for the screwing you got. I guess at my age they are all old jokes.

    2. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 4, 2022 at 10:55 pm

      I’ve never heard the joke about wedding cakes. Think I’ll text it to my daughter and sister!

      1. KurtUSA Aug 5, 2022 at 6:41 am

        The other bad joke, which seems appropriate in this case, is husband put a sign by the front door that reads:

        A nun lives here. Nun in the morning, nun in the afternoon and nun at night.

      2. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 6, 2022 at 11:13 am

        I once told my daughter’s father that I was gonna join a convent and he laughed at me, (btw, this was before the baby came along). He told me a clumsy joke that nuns are seen in pairs so that one nun sees to it the other nun gets none. I saw a button that read, “I married a nun. None in the morning. None in the afternoon. None at night!”

    3. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 6, 2022 at 11:16 am

      I once told my daughter’s father that I was gonna join a convent and he laughed at me, (btw, this was before the baby came along). He told me a clumsy joke that nuns are seen in pairs so that one nun sees to it the other nun gets none. I saw a button that read, “I married a nun. None in the morning. None in the afternoon. None at night!”

    4. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 6, 2022 at 11:27 am

      There’s a joke that when women attend college, they earn MRS. degrees along with their Associates, Bachelors, Masters and Doctors. When I briefly attended college, a couple had to choose between attending their graduation or getting married, since the only date their wedding venue was available, was on the day of the graduation.

  9. ZapRowsdower Aug 4, 2022 at 10:12 am

    Good luck to her when her pool of guys wanting to date her drops to zero. What guy would want to be with a woman long term if he won’t be getting any action? The woman wants to wait until marriage? Sure, I can do that. We’ll have LOTS of fun on our honeymoon. But a 40, 50, 60 year marriage with non sex and no children? Hard pass on that, I don’t care how hot she is. That’s like having a modern Ferrari in your garage and never driving it because “you just don’t feel like it.”

    And can I point something out? I can’t really seem to recall if any MEN have proudly proclaimed themselves to be asexual.

    1. UrbanVRWCMom Aug 4, 2022 at 1:09 pm

      There’s a “Christian” sect called Gnostics. They think material things are evil and think sex should only be reserved for procreation. To make matters worse, both parties are forbidden to derive pleasure from it. There’s a recipe for a miserable, disastrous marriage for those who have no acquired taste for said type of marriage.